1·As a result, boys are given a lot more feedback that emphasizes effort (e.g., "If you would just pay attention you could learn this," "If you would just try a little harder you could get it right.")
结果是，对男孩子们的反馈更多地强调努力比如：“如果你专心一点，你就可以学会”，“如果你再努力一点，你就可以做对。”
2·We all sit quietly and pay attention teaching how to be good listeners is important too – and then wildly applaud when the speech is finished!
我们都安静的坐好并专心的听着--教孩子如何作一名好的听众也很重要--然后当演说结束后热烈的鼓掌。
3·You must pay attention to your teacher in the class.
上课的时候必须专心听老师讲课。
4·The net result: when learning something new is truly difficult, girls take it as sign that they aren't "good" and "smart", and boys take it as a sign to pay attention and try harder.
最终结果就是：在学习一些真正困难的东西时，女生把其视为他们不“好”和不“聪明”的标志，而男生把其视为需要专心和更加努力的标志。
5·Just trying to get boys to sit still and pay attention is a real challenge for any parent or teacher.
只是让男孩子安安静静地坐下来专心，就让父母和老师头疼了。